Bad boys are a challenge, and women love obstacles and a challenge. They also like men with confidence. They like guys who go their way and do their own thing. They like their man not to care about what other people think about them. They value strength and know their man will protect them in a dangerous situation. While everyone is different, these are some of the things that women are drawn toward.
The Bad Boy, who Embodies The Attributes of the Classical-Romantic Hero, are Rapidly Becoming Extinct
Bad Boy: Rebellious Nature
When you pursue someone that you like despite the difficulties that separate you, you hope the results make your efforts are worthwhile. Learn how to be swaggering, but not arrogant. You do not want to overdo it. At the same time, be humorous (funny)! Successful dating is a proven mixture of these ingredients. It is tempting to both women and men, in romantic and non-romantic acquaintanceships alike. Try being a bad boy by adding some spunk to your style. Your goal is to get your potential mate to think: “Boy, this dude is mighty different!
We all grew up wanting to have a little edge to us, and a little of the bad boy in us. Growing up were always being mischievous and getting in some trouble. We enjoyed it. It was fun to live on the edge a little bit. For some of you, you might not have wanted trouble at all, or some of you might have been way too much trouble. I think we can all agree that the guys that could pull off the edgy problem without consequence, and without seemingly looking as they cared about the consequence, were the coolest dudes to us. Well, guess what? They weren’t just cool to us; they were very cool to women. That is at the heart of the attraction of the bad boy from women. It’s his ability to walk through life making it his own and not living by social rules or playing it safe. He goes for what he wants, doesn’t ask permission, and enjoys life his way. Women cannot resist this boyish demeanor towards mischief.
If you don’t find your life interesting and exciting, why would any one want to be part of it?
You don’t need to go around being bad or naughty in everything you do, but you can learn to be deliberate in your actions. Be different, and play hard to get. Balance cockiness and attitude with the right combination of playfulness and humor, and you will have harnessed the charm of naughty, almost as if you had a unique spell!
Why Do Women Love Bad Boys?
Another thing about ‘bad boys’ is that they often seem more physical – even if it’s because they get into a lot of fights. Similarly, they might have more idea of how to dress fashionably if they’re bad because they’re ladies men. Put some work into your physical appearance and dress sense and you’ll be able to compete on that level.
- He did what he wanted, when he wanted to, regardless of what anyone else thought.
The Bad Boys Theory
Bad boys are well-composed and self-assured. They understand that dating is about having fun and genuinely do not care what others think. The bad boy attitude screams power, intensity of character, confidence, rebellious nature, and an extremely high sensual appeal.
Some men do not understand the craft of seduction and end up being total jerks. But women do not like jerks. They may, however, be attracted to qualities that many jerks possess. And that’s what you want to do―simply exude those sexy qualities without stooping to unkind words and behavior. It is not the looks you have, but the attitude, confidence and approach you dish out that will win the dating game.
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“There is a part of you that may still be hidden, that if you dare stand before me, I will awaken. In just seven days, I’ll show you how to BE that noble Bad Boy that makes her ache to do anything for you, always.”
- The bad boy does not fight for approval, the bad boy is not battling for acceptance, the bad boy does is not trying to prove anything to anyone.
Beast to Prince Charming Theory
The bad boy and the sassy girl know how to get what they yearn for. Beast to Prince Charming describes the fundamental illustration of the bad boy syndrome after which so many girls secretly lust. Why do women always seek bad boys?
Well, we all know the response to that question. Introducing―the Beast to Prince Charming Theory. This concept starts with a bad boy who does everything in an extraordinarily unconventional fashion.
The good girl is tired of the same old thing from ordinary men, and so focuses her pursuit on the bad boy. The bad boy is the alpha male, and so the good girl seeks to please the beast by keeping things mysterious and entertaining. The beast falls for the good girl in her mission to win him over. She has won him over finally when he converts to Prince Charming!
To recap Beast to Prince Charming theory: as the good girl falls for the bad boy and the bad boy falls for her in turn, he totally alters his entire way of life. This fulfills the need of many women to fix a man and turn him to the good side.
Bad boys know how to make great use of compliments. Their long dating history gives them a practice ground for becoming crafty, and they know how to say all the right things at all the right times. Whether they start off romantic and soft or raunchy and wild, they are calculatedly thrifty with their compliments, always leaving their sweetheart craving for more.
Attractive Bad Boy Elements
The bad boy brings a dramatic side to the dating scene and provides an interesting topic of conversation, even after the date is over. With a nice guy, when the date has concluded, it’s done―there is no lingering attraction. The bad boy knows how to initiate a lively interest from the start and maintain it throughout the relationship.
Highly Attractive Bad Boy Elements: Excitement, Drama, Mystery, Sociability, Impulsiveness, Control, Rebellion, Sexual Poise, and Fantasy.
They’re consciously and unconsciously looking for guys who meet their deepest desires. And there’s nothing you can do about it.
- More sex! When you have women hitting on you, you’ll be the one rejecting THEM.
- Show your best traits and hide your body flaws (hanging belly, too short, too skinny, etc.). Sneaky, I know… but girls do this ALL THE TIME!
- Have people treat you better and enjoy your company more. Hey, you look great! – You’ll hear this a lot…
- You’ll feel confident day in and day out, and opportunities will finally start coming your way. Your suggestions and decisions will weigh more.
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Remember Nice Guy vs. Bad Boy Syndrome
Most guys confuse being a nice guy with being real, really, well-liked amongst women. That is a myth and the reason why nice guys, as they say, finish last. You see, when a female refers to a nice guy, she is not referring to a guy who demonstrates traits of the nice boy, who:
“Is anxious around females;
Is self-conscious in social conditions;
Is intimidated by women and feels like he needs to impress them;
Doesn’t know what to say to women he wants to impress;
Is overly nice to women, treating them as he would his grandmother;
Makes telephone calls to often, not allowing them to miss him;
Reveals to women that he has feelings for them too early on;
Behaves submissively or like a weakling around women;
Tends to embrace a woman’s demands, only so she will spend more time with him or carry on speaking to him;
Becomes a doormat for females and puts his own necessities aside;
Listens to all of their misfortunes and converses with a woman like she would with a girlfriend;
Relinquishes his power his, and enables them to assume the role of the boss;
Always seeking to accommodate their and their needs instead of being a man and taking the lead.”
If you can relate to any of the nice guy traits mentioned above, then today is the day to STOP making those mistakes! Transform yourself into the man that every woman is desperately searching for. Nice guys finish last with females because they don’t spark attraction with their lame and mundane tendencies. You can still be kind to women; however, you must learn how to attract females and lead them to experience the sensual emotions of desire they yearn to feel when interacting with a man.
You want to exude the air of a bad boy, who:
“Is confident around ladies;
Is very confident around other guys;
Understands how to flirt appropriately and politely;
Knows how to be challenging without getting overly aggressive;
Takes on the masculine role in an interaction, on a date, or in a relationship;
Respects women and enjoys their company;
Appreciates women and takes pleasure in their company;
Gives lots of time and attention to his life, and what he’s achieving
or attempting to achieve;
Utilizes humor in an attractive manner;
Confidently converses with women he finds attractive in a unique way.”
The bad boy is not too intimidated to say “No.” The bad boy does not place the princess on the pedestal. Alternatively, he removes her from the pedestal and waits patiently until the princess begins to serve him and eventually regard him as a king. In the midst, she will be lost in a trance―completely mesmerized. She will wonder to herself, “Why does he treat me like this―so good? And everyone else treats me like that―so boring?” She will be filled with fascination. That which is easily attainable holds little value, so keep in mind that you must both give her reason to pursue you and make sure the chase is not too easy.
Unleashing the Bad Boy
If you want to recast your image as a bad boy, start imagining yourself in the aforementioned bad boy syndrome scenarios. Practice these mannerisms over the phone and while you are out on a date. Little by little you will become the bad boy that the good girls just can’t keep their hands and minds off of.
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